(2) (3) (4) When Dating A Nigerian Man What Should An African American Woman Expect?---The reasons behind which I'm opening this topic is, because I'm currently in college and dating a Nigerian man (Yoruba) for the first time.
I tend to be very patient and willing to learn new things, so INSTEAD of getting angry when I don't understand his behavior, I try to remember we have our differences.
I plan on later becoming a Marriage and Family counselor so I THINK the best place to start is within my own relationship, Sometimes he is the sweetest man ever, and I adore spending time with him, then at times its like he's sitting on a throne and I am catering more to his needs than he is to mines.
I too am in a relationship with a Nigerian Man, I love him dearly.
I am all about looking after him, love to cook for him, love to please him, I respect him as head of the household, I sometimes have an issue with him telling me how to better take care of my own needs(rest, eating more, just plain pampering myself) he can be firm about that but I am learning, have always done the looking after so now it feels a little odd when someone wants to look after me.
Back then, whenever we have any argument, she'll tell me am so African. I ain't bossy when it comes to a relationship so I wouldn't let anyone play the role of a boss in my relationship..
She sometimes say she hates black but she's a dependent of Jamaica. She asked me to move into her apartment and I said no, she told me I was staying at my place so I could cheat on her, I had my place before I met her. To me, relationship is all about complement and not competition. 169Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.babygurl, tell me what man in the US would do this more often, without griping, nontheless a Nigerian man?LOLtho, there are some men infact, who do enjoy contributiing like that. My X BOYFRIEND is Nigerian (Igbo) from PH and the reason we didnt make it, is because he leaves messy 'tracks' for me to see clear evidence of his inconsistency in behaviour.I perfectly understood we got different backgrounds but she wanted me to act Canadian when am not. It's well [quote author=suzzy16 post=35050645]good,dnt let any woman control how u live ur life for u[/quote]Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2019 Oluwaseun Osewa. The dating scene can get quite difficult, especially with our hectic lives.We barely dated couple of weeks and she asked me to get her pregnant so she could help me with papers.