It is like taking a small share of the total stress and anxiety level experienced by military men.
Make sure to write about all the interesting things that happened to you throughout the day. You may mutually decide to set a letter routine that he might be able to predict.
When writing emails, do not mention any unpleasant events or your meeting with any other men for whatsoever reason.
It would sound so unfair that he is out on the field, sitting in the sandbox and fighting with the enemy for days, while you silently cheat on him. These officers get a rare chance of free time to call their families and girlfriends. Tell him all kinds of pleasant and interesting things that may take away some anxiety from his mind and cheer him up. You might list out to him all the activities that you plan to do when he comes back home.
So when you do receive a call, make the conversations as pleasant as possible. A crucial part is to end the phone calls on a happy note.
There is so much stress on his job that he might not find sufficient time to write to you as often as you write to him.
On special occasions, it is a great idea to send him handwritten letters with greeting cards, photographs, gifts or packed homemade food that he likes.
If one thing goes wrong that could be America at risk basically.
It depends on what kind of job they have that measures their stress levels but I know all of them get stressed to a certain point and so I just encourage all the women to be encouragers of their men because that’s what they need they need encouragers to just say it’s okay to be there to listen to them women have to be listeners we can’t just be talkers um to you know do anything to help them with their stress give them a foot massage if you live with them give them a back massage give them anything they need to not be stressed anymore but don’t let it be unhealthy don’t let it be like I need to drink to get my stress out I need to get away from my wife to not be stressed you as a as a woman as a wife is to encourage your husband daily or your boyfriend daily um and so they’re going to be very stressed out all the time and it’s your job to not eliminate the stress, but at least kind of soothe it to make it a little bit better and trust me that will work in your favor for the rest of your life if you encourage them so that’s basically it for this video and if you have any questions leave me a comment if you want me to do a video a type of video leave a comment if you like this video give it a thumbs up if you didn’t like it give it a thumbs up um but other than that thanks for listening and love yall!
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