The answer to that may seem obvious, but just in case it isn’t let me say: writing a great first message in online dating is critical to success or failure in your dating life.As I discuss in my free online dating guide, successful online dating relies in part on making great first impressions.
are all good conversation starters that you can use in messages to women.
These phrases are great because they show the woman you've read her profile.
The worst initial message you can send a woman on a dating site would be one or two words such as "Hi,", "Hey," or "Hello there" just like these guys: These are NOT good conversation starters with women.
You may as well write, "I have nothing to say, am boring, and lack confidence.
Whether the first impression is in the photos you select for your profile, how you describe yourself, or the first email you write, taking time to make the best first impression is important.
For this discussion refers to your first message in online dating.
Please don't reply to my message." Women will delete your email immediately if you send a one or two-word opening message.
And believe me, the majority of men send lame openings like this: You can see even lousier opening messages in my blog post, The Top 5 Worst Online Dating Messages To Women, that you should avoid sending to women. Ok Cupid points out that "talking about specific things that interest you or that you might have in common with someone is a time-honored way to make a connection....." and they have proof that it works.
But what are good conversation starters that do get responses? Ok Cupid analyzed over 500,000 emails and found the phrases that had the highest success rate for replies to your messages. Ok Cupid found several phrases that get high response rates.
The top 3 that got the most replies are:"I've lived all over!
With online dating, the first message can make or break your chances of a successful first date.