If you do not get a response within the first ten minutes, wait at least a half day, and longer is better, to send the second one.
As an aside, that message is never “are we still on,” but rather “i’ll be picking you up at 6, send me the address.” It is entirely ok to send a message that you had a good time. It was not the best time of your life unless you spent every day prior to your coffee date living in a cave eating bugs.
The point is to communicate that you had a good time, and that it was nice to meet them; that is all you have to say until they respond.
Maybe you exchanged some messaging before the date but be honest, you had coffee for an hour.
The person who you’re flooding with attention is a real person but they probably aren’t the person you believe them to be.
Any interest the woman might have had in you may have been thoroughly extinguished.
While this behavior seems easy to avoid, it is actually a common trap to fall into.A woman who will dismiss your text message will have a much tougher time rejecting you to your face.Having your second date set is one of the absolute best ways of not overdoing the messaging after the first date.Are your feelings for the person you had coffee with?That is somewhat unlikely given the short nature of the interaction.However, even if there is a connection at this point, it is a tenuous one.