I know it's definitely easier said than done this cause I've been in your place before.Like others have said, cut ties, go try to find someone else. You do have a choice, you are choosing to keep doing this to yorurself in the hope she will see how hopeless you are and fall head over heels for you and live happily ever after. You need to start taking care of yourself and that includes keeping contact with her to a minimum.
you are driving her crazy with all this relationship talk. Just the superlatives you've used talking about her makes me think that. One to two weeks isn't enough time to give her after her 4 year relationship.
she is on the rebound( both of you are) and you are trying to fill the void your ex left deep within you with her. you are not in love ..are in lust.(infatuated) give her space and go meet other girls. After six years, you could be blindly marching into a rebound.
"I cant, I have to wait for you, I have no choice".
from the second i wake up till the second i go to sleep im thinking about her.
I just got out of a 6 year relationship and she just got out of a 4 year relationship. I have never clicked with any girl as much as I do with her. we click so much, and have so much chemistry, that we hug/make out every time we see eachother.
but she says shes simply not ready for a relationship yet.. when we go to the bars we kiss/hold hands/i have my arm around her shoulder and her arm is around my waist. I don't think it is a problem to have dates with different guys I just don't think it is not fair to keep it a secret after the third date When someone says they "aren't looking for a relationship right now" it basically the same as saying "I don't want to date you." It's a rejection, and most of the time someone is not going to change their mind about you.She said no, and your understanding of that was completely wrong.by being really nice, by treating her special, by giving her enough attention to show that you care… By doing specific behaviors that create attraction and avoiding behaviors that lower her attraction like giving her a lot of attention and over-pursuing her. Instead, here’s what you need to do: Use texting PRIMARILY to schedule meetings with her.Too much attention will KILL the attraction and that’s the problem right now… Nothing kills the mystery like getting into long, drawn-out text conversations with a woman without scheduling a date. All that is required is that you send a few texts that eventually aim for the meetup. I just want you to always keep in mind the purpose of your communication… This brings me to the second thing you need to do …(you REALLY must avoid this mistake)… Are you the one pushing for things to get “official” and wondering what kind of relationship you’re in with her? Acting like a woman by talking too much about your feelings and pushing for an “official” relationship can lead to a very SERIOUS loss of attraction Let the girl take care of that department, alright?It's not worth it."I'm not ready for a relationship" or "I don't want a boyfriend/girlfriend right now" is an excuse. If you like someone and are genuinely attracted to them...will have time for them and be ready to date them. She's not a slut, she's just not telling you the truth.