Not all couples withstand such cold shower after the warmth and daydreams of the first meetings.After six months, the tide of passion is falling and you can finally soberly assess your partner and fall in love with their real personality.
During this period, a lot of misunderstandings arise.
If partners value their relationship, they overcome all obstacles on their way.
Of course, you may be afraid of coming across as irresponsible, but since you have a common household, there shouldn’t be any unexpected truths.
Living together doesn’t mean taking care of each other’s bank statements.
Some trifles that didn’t matter before, became significant and apparent.
After having lived together for a while, partners may realize that they have different biorhythms (one can be a lark, while the other one is an owl); she tries to create coziness while he thinks she is a spendthrift; it’s important for him to meet with his buddies while she thinks he give much attention to them and spends little time with her. First, it’s your parents and siblings, then, it’s your own family – your wife and children.
You have your own requirements for your future spouse, you want to feel in a special way being with your partner.
Share with your loved one what you expect from your relationship, how you view male and female roles in a couple, what is intolerable for you, etc.
You need to know what you partner strives for so that you can provide your support. It’s natural that you have your own vision of a perfect relationship or a married life.